I first came to Daren Lowman in the midst of the most painful crisis I've ever experienced. My festering addiction to pornography had erupted into a series of adulterous affairs. I never thought I would ever be willing to go see a counselor. Daren was always incredibly patient and helped me realize that I could gradually open up and work with him to improve my future.
We were at the lowest low coming off of a divorce and an interstate move. The relationship with my son was restored and trust began to build again because of Daren's wise counsel. In many ways I felt like my life was over after the breakup with my fiancee. Words cannot adequately express how much I appreciate Daren's sensitivity, insight, and encouragement.
We discovered our younger son was struggling with pornography. Over the months Daren gradually chipped away at the gigantic wall he built around himself, and he is opening up.
We were at the lowest low coming off of a divorce and an interstate move. The relationship with my son was restored and trust began to build again because of Daren's wise counsel. In many ways I felt like my life was over after the breakup with my fiancee. Words cannot adequately express how much I appreciate Daren's sensitivity, insight, and encouragement.
We discovered our younger son was struggling with pornography. Over the months Daren gradually chipped away at the gigantic wall he built around himself, and he is opening up.
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For all of us there are times in our lives when we need help, support or guidance.
Broken marriages, addictions, depression, anxiety, loss of a job or loved one, etc. bring us to the point of reaching out.
There IS hope.
But while we are in the relentless storm, we need the care of another.
I have been there personally, and have learned that we are not meant to do life on our own.
I have been through cancer, marriage difficulties, parenting struggles, infertility, life with an alcoholic and abusive father, deaths and other traumas & losses.
Broken marriages, addictions, depression, anxiety, loss of a job or loved one, etc. bring us to the point of reaching out.
There IS hope.
But while we are in the relentless storm, we need the care of another.
I have been there personally, and have learned that we are not meant to do life on our own.
I have been through cancer, marriage difficulties, parenting struggles, infertility, life with an alcoholic and abusive father, deaths and other traumas & losses.
You feel betrayed, shattered, gutted.
Your old life & relationship have been blown apart and nothing remains but a smoldering, ashen heap of tears, anger, agony and misery.
After such devastation healing seems impossible, especially since this probably isn't the first time this has happened.
You're beginning to realize that if you don't get help now, you could lose everything - your marriage, family, job, health & finances.
When you or your partner are suffering from Sex Addiction, healing is very difficult to imagine, and you don't even know what hope looks like, tastes like, or smells like.
Your old life & relationship have been blown apart and nothing remains but a smoldering, ashen heap of tears, anger, agony and misery.
After such devastation healing seems impossible, especially since this probably isn't the first time this has happened.
You're beginning to realize that if you don't get help now, you could lose everything - your marriage, family, job, health & finances.
When you or your partner are suffering from Sex Addiction, healing is very difficult to imagine, and you don't even know what hope looks like, tastes like, or smells like.
But how much is too much?
You feel tense, worried and stressed far too much and far too often, and it's affecting your life and relationships.
Perhaps it's subtle.
Perhaps it's just a habit of excessive worrying or fearfulness about certain things that has slowly grown worse over time and is now unbearable.
Or perhaps it's obvious.
Perhaps you're suffering from flashbacks, nightmares & intrusive thoughts about a traumatic event from your past.
Or maybe you've even experienced some sort of "panic attack", a sudden onset of intense fear causing shortness of breath, dizziness, or uneasiness in your stomach or chest.
You feel tense, worried and stressed far too much and far too often, and it's affecting your life and relationships.
Perhaps it's subtle.
Perhaps it's just a habit of excessive worrying or fearfulness about certain things that has slowly grown worse over time and is now unbearable.
Or perhaps it's obvious.
Perhaps you're suffering from flashbacks, nightmares & intrusive thoughts about a traumatic event from your past.
Or maybe you've even experienced some sort of "panic attack", a sudden onset of intense fear causing shortness of breath, dizziness, or uneasiness in your stomach or chest.
There is a shadow coloring all of your life, a negative lens through which everything looks empty, uninteresting and hopeless.
Everyone feels a bit low from time to time, but this is different.
Somehow you find yourself feeling down almost all the time and it's affecting your work, your relationships, everything.
A loss of interest in life, little ambition, zero motivation: these are your companions now.
Fatigue & loss of energy, not being able to concentrate or make decisions, insomnia or excessive sleeping, a loss of appetite or overeating.
Everyone feels a bit low from time to time, but this is different.
Somehow you find yourself feeling down almost all the time and it's affecting your work, your relationships, everything.
A loss of interest in life, little ambition, zero motivation: these are your companions now.
Fatigue & loss of energy, not being able to concentrate or make decisions, insomnia or excessive sleeping, a loss of appetite or overeating.
But however you experience conflict as a couple, no doubt it leaves you hurting, lonely, and wondering where the love and connection you expected has gone.
You may feel disillusioned with your relationship, and wonder if real change is even possible.
Instead of a loving companion by your side, perhaps you feel like you've ended up with a stranger, a roommate, or worse yet, an enemy.
There is always hope.
Others have found the way to a successful relationship, and you can too.
In fact Daren has helped many couples reach a level of connection and intimacy greater than they've ever experienced before.
You may feel disillusioned with your relationship, and wonder if real change is even possible.
Instead of a loving companion by your side, perhaps you feel like you've ended up with a stranger, a roommate, or worse yet, an enemy.
There is always hope.
Others have found the way to a successful relationship, and you can too.
In fact Daren has helped many couples reach a level of connection and intimacy greater than they've ever experienced before.
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