People seek counseling for a variety of reasons and in different seasons of their relationship. It is so confusing and painful to look at the person you love and wonder how you can feel so far apart. Despite our best efforts to "talk things out, " or try to wait for the dust to settle, we can end up feeling even more distant from each other. It can feel like a frustrating cycle with no solution.
A map that can help lead to connection, trust, love and safety. My goal is to help couples put their map together and see where signals might be getting missed. Working together, they learn how to turn to each other in a way that messages are conveyed clearly, heard more accurately and responded to more effectively. It is impossible to avoid the pains and challenges of life.
However, that doesn't mean we are destined to live a life that is void of peace, joy or connection. If you feel stuck, lost, empty or overwhelmed, we will work together to find your way out. You can reclaim your life, find healing and experience growth.
A map that can help lead to connection, trust, love and safety. My goal is to help couples put their map together and see where signals might be getting missed. Working together, they learn how to turn to each other in a way that messages are conveyed clearly, heard more accurately and responded to more effectively. It is impossible to avoid the pains and challenges of life.
However, that doesn't mean we are destined to live a life that is void of peace, joy or connection. If you feel stuck, lost, empty or overwhelmed, we will work together to find your way out. You can reclaim your life, find healing and experience growth.
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My practice is dedicated to helping people love well and lead fulfilling, emotionally healthy lives.
I have been a professional counselor for 20 years and in private practice for the last 16 years.
I am fully ICEEFT trained in all modalities of Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) including: Couples Therapy (EFCT), Individual Therapy (EFIT) with a specialization in trauma, as well as Family Therapy (EFFT).
Although much of my clinical approach is based in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), I have also trained in Internal Family Systems (IFS) and Acceptance and Integration Therapy (AAIT).
I have been a professional counselor for 20 years and in private practice for the last 16 years.
I am fully ICEEFT trained in all modalities of Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) including: Couples Therapy (EFCT), Individual Therapy (EFIT) with a specialization in trauma, as well as Family Therapy (EFFT).
Although much of my clinical approach is based in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), I have also trained in Internal Family Systems (IFS) and Acceptance and Integration Therapy (AAIT).
Anxiety robs us of joy and can lead to strain in our most important relationships, such as with our spouse, family members and friends.
In addition, anxiety and stress (and related perfectionism) can lead to burnout, impulsive decision making and a feeling that we cannot regroup or find our way out of the woods.
I work with clients to sort through the mind clutter where anxiety lives and feeds.
Together you and I talk in a purposeful way, without fear of judgment, loaded expectations or demands.
In addition, anxiety and stress (and related perfectionism) can lead to burnout, impulsive decision making and a feeling that we cannot regroup or find our way out of the woods.
I work with clients to sort through the mind clutter where anxiety lives and feeds.
Together you and I talk in a purposeful way, without fear of judgment, loaded expectations or demands.
Most people think of grief as only something we experience after the loss of a loved one.
Although that is certainly a time we can experience grief, it is not the only event that can cause us to grieve.
In fact, most people who seek counseling are trying to navigate the grieving process after life changing events.
Grieving is a natural part of living and something that all of us will experience.
How do we navigate these painful experiences in a healthy way?
Many times when experiencing events that cause us pain like this we are not ready.
Although that is certainly a time we can experience grief, it is not the only event that can cause us to grieve.
In fact, most people who seek counseling are trying to navigate the grieving process after life changing events.
Grieving is a natural part of living and something that all of us will experience.
How do we navigate these painful experiences in a healthy way?
Many times when experiencing events that cause us pain like this we are not ready.
The pain people carry with them after a traumatic experience can be extraordinarily heavy.
In experiencing trauma, we often find ways of coping that become a sense of safety and protection for us.
We isolate, we deny our experiences or "put them away, " we escape into other things/people, we people please, we try to be "perfect" to not worry others.
It can be hard to find someone who we feel safe sharing our experiences with and, consequently, we end up harboring these experiences and the emotions attached to those experiences.
In experiencing trauma, we often find ways of coping that become a sense of safety and protection for us.
We isolate, we deny our experiences or "put them away, " we escape into other things/people, we people please, we try to be "perfect" to not worry others.
It can be hard to find someone who we feel safe sharing our experiences with and, consequently, we end up harboring these experiences and the emotions attached to those experiences.
Modern relationships are more demanding than ever.
As much as we spend time and energy seeking love and trying to find "our person, " divorce rates continue to be high and strains on marriage become debilitating and emotionally exhausting.
It's common for people who once felt so much love for each other to feel like strangers, roommates or business partners.
Both people are hurting and unsure of what steps to take next.
People can also find themselves hurting long after the end of an important relationship.
As much as we spend time and energy seeking love and trying to find "our person, " divorce rates continue to be high and strains on marriage become debilitating and emotionally exhausting.
It's common for people who once felt so much love for each other to feel like strangers, roommates or business partners.
Both people are hurting and unsure of what steps to take next.
People can also find themselves hurting long after the end of an important relationship.
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