The most important investment (financial and otherwise) in your life is in the relationships with your spouse/partner and family. If you are married or in a deeply committed relationship, you have never been so vulnerable since you were a child. No one can give you such extreme pleasure or pain as your partner. Amazing isn't it?! You do not pick your parents but you do pick your friends and spouse or partner.
Invest in the maintenance of your relationship like you do your investments that are not as important as your family. Research suggests that the breakdown of the family creates the largest cause of pain in any society. Give your relationship a tune-up you two can feel good about. If I can't help you I will find another resource for you. I am pro-marriage and family but your destiny is your decision.
I am here to care and help you individually or as a couple with your decisions and feelings. I offer marriage counseling and individual therapy in Orange County with adults, teens and children.
Invest in the maintenance of your relationship like you do your investments that are not as important as your family. Research suggests that the breakdown of the family creates the largest cause of pain in any society. Give your relationship a tune-up you two can feel good about. If I can't help you I will find another resource for you. I am pro-marriage and family but your destiny is your decision.
I am here to care and help you individually or as a couple with your decisions and feelings. I offer marriage counseling and individual therapy in Orange County with adults, teens and children.
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Background information and counseling approach of James J. Sanders, LMFT, LPC, NCC, CCMHC.
My approach to couples and individual counseling as well as the duration of counseling varies depending upon your wants as well as other clinical indications.
In collaboration with you, I like to set concrete, attainable goals.
At the end of counseling, it is great to look back and realize what you have achieved.
I utilize a variety of different approaches and models partly depending upon what may have worked for you in the past.
My approach to couples and individual counseling as well as the duration of counseling varies depending upon your wants as well as other clinical indications.
In collaboration with you, I like to set concrete, attainable goals.
At the end of counseling, it is great to look back and realize what you have achieved.
I utilize a variety of different approaches and models partly depending upon what may have worked for you in the past.
This book is written in the form of a personal letter to you.
It gently expresses that the ability to do what you want, is already within you.
In a clever manner James helps you figure out what you want and how to talk yourself into it.
It is very positive, enjoyable and relaxing to read.
Understanding that self -esteem is the realization and recognition of the goodness and beauty that is already within us just by the very nature of being a human being.
The ability to be enlightened is already within us.
It gently expresses that the ability to do what you want, is already within you.
In a clever manner James helps you figure out what you want and how to talk yourself into it.
It is very positive, enjoyable and relaxing to read.
Understanding that self -esteem is the realization and recognition of the goodness and beauty that is already within us just by the very nature of being a human being.
The ability to be enlightened is already within us.
Beyond couples counseling or individual counseling, I recommend other resources to help you build better relationships.
These book recommendations are helpful for those needing support with a difficult marriage, divorce recovery, trauma and healing, or other relationship issues.
Realize and recognize the goodness and beauty that is already within you just by the very nature of being a human being.
These book recommendations are helpful for those needing support with a difficult marriage, divorce recovery, trauma and healing, or other relationship issues.
Realize and recognize the goodness and beauty that is already within you just by the very nature of being a human being.
Are you frustrated about focusing on what you do NOT want?
We all have been there.
That negative focus is based on regrets of the past and fears in the future with no space for the present here and now.
So there we are stuck, stymied and stuttering in the here and now, unable to relax in the present moment.
Help you feel understood and help you understand and deal with your feelings and behaviors.
We all need a helping hand at some point.
Feel free to call or e-mail me with your thoughts or questions about counseling my friend.
We all have been there.
That negative focus is based on regrets of the past and fears in the future with no space for the present here and now.
So there we are stuck, stymied and stuttering in the here and now, unable to relax in the present moment.
Help you feel understood and help you understand and deal with your feelings and behaviors.
We all need a helping hand at some point.
Feel free to call or e-mail me with your thoughts or questions about counseling my friend.
Below are answers to common questions about my counseling practice.
If you have further questions or are ready to make an appointment, please contact me here.
My office hours are flexible.
Call me on my cell phone for confidential easy access and appointment making.
Cell (949) 636-7529 or e-mail me.
Your communication with me is strictly confidential as I do not have a secretary or answering service.
If you have not been to a therapist before, you may be a bit nervous.
That is natural.
I want to help you feel emotionally safe and cared for.
If you have further questions or are ready to make an appointment, please contact me here.
My office hours are flexible.
Call me on my cell phone for confidential easy access and appointment making.
Cell (949) 636-7529 or e-mail me.
Your communication with me is strictly confidential as I do not have a secretary or answering service.
If you have not been to a therapist before, you may be a bit nervous.
That is natural.
I want to help you feel emotionally safe and cared for.
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